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Quotes About Control

Satan knows what consumes us controls us. Therefore the more consumed we are with rejection, the more he can control our emotions, our thinking, and our actions.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
The devil turns powerless when our minds turn to our all-powerful God.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
If we are living honest lives that honor God, we must not forget that people not liking our boundary does not mean we aren't living right before God. We mustn't let unhealthy people control us or have too much access to our hearts so that their negative opinion shakes us. God's is the only opinion that matters!
~ Lysa TerKeurst
Remember: what consumes us, controls us. As
~ Lysa TerKeurst
our job is to be obedient to God. God's job is everything else.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
I stuff because: I don't feel safe enough to confront this person. I don't have the energy or the time to get into a conflict right now. I don't know how to address the issue. I don't want to seem hypersensitive. I don't want to get rejected. I don't want to lose control. I don't want to make things worse, so I convince myself I can just let it go.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
Too many of us live with an uncontrolled thought life. It is possible to learn to identify destructive thoughts and make wiser choices. Instead of letting those thoughts rumble freely about in my mind, I make the choice to harness them and direct them toward truth.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
Puedo enfrentar las cosas que están fuera de mi control y no actuar fuera de control.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
Remember all the work you've done to draw boundaries was not about controlling someone else's behavior. It's about paying attention ad being hones about how someone's poor behavior and lack of responsibility is possibly controlling you. And when people close to us are acting out of control, that's when we run the greater risk of lacking self-control. When a relationship shifts from being difficult to being destructive, it's the right time to consider a goodbye.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
Why can't I seem to control my reactions? I stuff. I explode.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
Please see how dangerous this assumption was. She got alone with her own thoughts and assumptions. And it led her to doubt God. And take control to get what she wanted. What she thought was best.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
Whenever any kind of relationship conflict arises, my choice is whether to give the other person power to control my emotions.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
God has given me power over my food. I hold the power -- not the food. If I'm not supposed to eat it, I won't put it in my mouth.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
no matter how well I plan things, I can't control them. No matter how well I think I know the people in my life, I can't control them. No matter how well I follow the rules, do what's right, and seek to obey God with my whole heart, I can't control my life. I can't control God.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
After all, I will never be able to control what other people have going on in their heads or in their conversations. But with the help of the Holy Spirit in me, I can absolutely learn to control how much I allow the fear of their opinions to have access to my life.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
I can't control the things that happen to me each day, but I can control how I think about them. I can say to myself, "I have a choice to have destructive thoughts or constructive thoughts right now. I can wallow in what's wrong and make things worse, or I can ask God for a better perspective to help me see good even when I don't feel good.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
Where there is an abundance of chaos, there is usually a lack of good boundaries.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
Here's the reality of our current technique: Other people's requests dictate the decisions we make. We become slaves to others' demands when we let our time become dictated by requests. We will live reactive lives instead of proactive.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
We consume what we think about. And what we think about can consume us if we're not careful.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
it is clear the opposite of trusting God is leaning on our own understanding—trying to figure out things all on our own. And the evidence of whether or not I'm trusting Him is shown by where I place my focus. After all, we steer where we stare.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
TO HONOR GOD COMPLETELY, you need enough faith to leave with Him. Leave? Leave and go where, you ask? Leave the way you've always done life and start doing things differently with God. Leave the attitude, leave the stubborn pride, leave the right to be right, leave the control, and biggest of all, leave the unbelief.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
We cannot control our outcomes. We cannot formulate how the promises of God will actually take shape. And we will never be able to demand any of the healing from all the hurt to hurry up.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
Taking thoughts captive and being transformed by thinking new ways isn't some New Age form of mind control. It's biblical and it's fitting with how God wired our brains.
~ Lysa TerKeurst
Some prisons don't require bars to keep people locked inside.
~ Lysa TerKeurst