Quotes About Development

In the case of the earliest Connection Survival Style, for example, focusing on changing distorted cognitions is particularly difficult because with early trauma, the cortex is not yet fully developed, and it is mostly the underlying bottom-up nervous system and affective imbalances that drive the cognitive distortions.

Children are pushed to give up their dependency needs and assume responsibility too early. This is particularly common in alcoholic and dysfunctional families.

As we experience the development of personal agency, we come to see that the rejection we fear from the world has already happened.

Autonomy and a sense of independence are the core capacities that have failed to develop fully in those who exhibit this survival style.

Attuned parents support increasing age-appropriate independence and autonomy. Highly anxious parents undermine their children's developing need for independence because of their own unresolved fears. They prevent their age-appropriate movement toward autonomy in order to "protect" their children.

To the degree that the internal capacity to attend to our own core needs develops, we experience self-regulation, internal organization, expansion, connection, and aliveness, all attributes of physiological and psychological well-being. Supporting the healthy development of the core capacities is central to the NARM approach.

Toxic shame begins as an adaptation to adverse childhood experiences. Shame is the mechanism of disconnecting from and attacking the Self. Shame becomes a survival strategy to protect against attachment loss and environmental failure, which are experienced as loss of love in the universe. When shame occurs early in a child's development, their sense of Self becomes associated with shame.

Good followers do not become good leaders.

He must examine his objectives and see that true progress is achieved through moving forward to a better way of life, rather than upward to total life incompetence.

The computer may be incompetent in itself--that is, unable to do the work for which it was designed. This kind of incompetence can never be eliminated, because the Peter Principle applies in the plants where computers are designed and manufactured.

Seorang yang kompeten dalam level tertentu belum tentu kompeten pada level berikutnya

true progress is achieved through moving forward to a better way of life, rather than upward to total life incompetence.

Man's First Mistake: The Wheel

Good writing demands self-discipline and constant learning

When I had my first voice lesson I was 15 years old. And I had a really good teacher. This is what made all the difference. A good teacher will teach you the technique, but also how to listen to your voice.

C.P. Office sees its particular product (buildings) as the readily recognisable parts of its continuous design process.

It happened so slowly that you might not even notice it at all, like the sky turning from dusk to dark.

Change doesn't just happen," her mother had always said, echoing the Shaker motto. "It has to be planned.

With each roll of film, however, she began to understand more and more how a photograph was put together, what it could do and what it could not, just how far you could stretch and twist it. Though she did not know it at the time, all of this was training her to be the photographer she would become.

There is nowhere to go but on.

Each year they learn the same thing, just in bigger words.

A community is known by the schools it keeps.

Most communities just happen; the best are planned":

In these days there are few sights more terrifying than that of a well-dressed man with a notebook looking at a piece of land.