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Quotes About Control

We all of us seem to have this belief that things are going to get better. Why should they? Sometimes I think we're moving into a new ice age of tyranny and terror, why not? Who's to stop it—us?
~ Doris Lessing
Poor economies breed tyrannies.
~ Doris Lessing
Emotion is a trap, it delivers you into the hands of society, that's why people are measuring it out.
~ Doris Lessing
Nearly all the pressures from outside are in terms of group beliefs, group needs, national needs, patriotism and the demands of local loyalties, such as to your city and local groups of all kinds. But more subtle and more demanding—more dangerous—are the pressures from inside, which demand that you should conform, and it is these that are the hardest to watch and to control.
~ Doris Lessing
What government, anywhere in the world, will happily envisage its subjects learning to free themselves from governmental and state rhetoric and pressures? Passionate loyalty and subjection to group pressure is what every state relies on. Some, of course, more than others.
~ Doris Lessing
No one does anything to me, I do it to myself.
~ Doris Lessing
Yes," said Willi, calmly. "You are an old nuisance. You can sit down if you like, but you must keep quiet and not talk nonsense." Maryrose turned quite white with fright and with pain on behalf of her mother. But Mrs Fowler, after a moment's silence, gave a short flustered laugh and sat down and kept perfectly quiet. And after that, if she came into the Gainsborough she always behaved with Willi like a well-brought-up small girl in the presence of a bullying father. And
~ Doris Lessing
Romantic love continues the status quo in which we both are victimized and victimize each other.
~ Dorothy Allison
If it's true, I have the absolute right to terrify you with it.
~ Dorothy Allison
You bloody little dictator,' he said. 'You're exactly like Kate.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
You choose to play God, and the Deity points out that the post is already adequately filled.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
What shall we do with him? We have him at our mercy. Think of all the browbeaten Streltsi at Vorobiovo who would like to take their revenge at this moment. We could hire out his carcass for money!'
~ Dorothy Dunnett
You lead, therefore you kill.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
You're so damned brilliant, said Phelim. You know everything. It's hard-set you'd be to give yourself a dull Saturday afternoon. We're all puppets—not the old Queens only, but the rest of us, man, woman and child, looking the fools of the world. [...] You have them there, on their strings, all curled tight to your littlest finger; and you little heeding as you swing them what soul you may bruise.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
It was to be expected that when he became in turn a leader of men, Francis should prove hard on others; should observe no laws; should fight, regardless of method, for victory.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
Allowed?' said Marthe. 'I have finished with asking permission for what I do and what I think. I have finished with being dispatched scurrying from errand to errand. I am my own mistress now. I am going to move the pieces. I am going to direct the end of the game.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
You see someone before you who is not afraid to say what he thinks, provided he is in a position of ascendancy with a door open behind him and a knife gripped in each hand.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
Do you think he will notice?' Danny said. 'I sometimes feel if I placed myself nude on the floor between the Voevoda and one of his meetings, he wouldn't even walk round me.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
Modern war is fought by a number of strong, sweaty horsemen with constipation, who have their eyes on power, on wealth and on glory, and who obey the rules just when it pleases them.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
All your life you have resented control and brooked no hint of instruction or guidance. This time, your will is not paramount.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
He shrugged. "One escapes; but one always has to come back. I found too I disliked not being in command of myself.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
The pain beating in his brows was beyond belief. He wanted only to go while he was still master of himself; before this primitive desire to devastate them both should overpower him.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
There he goes. What do you think he will do?' 'What you want him to do,' Adam said dryly. 'Doesn't he always?' 'No,' Lymond said.
~ Dorothy Dunnett
You are not being badgered; you are being invaded.
~ Dorothy Dunnett