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Quotes About Control

No sooner does a government attempt to go beyond its political sphere and to enter upon this new track, than it exercises, even unintentionally, an insupportable tyranny; for a government can only dictate strict rules, the opinions which it favors are rigidly enforced, and it is never easy to discriminate between its advice and its commands.
~ Alexis de Tocqueville
Democratic nations often hate those in whose hands the central power is vested; but they always love that power itself.
~ Alexis de Tocqueville
The man who in given cases consents to obey his fellows with servility, and who submits his activity and even his opinions to their control, can have no claim to rank as a free citizen.
~ Alexis de Tocqueville
according to the economists, the function of the state was not merely one of ruling the nation, but also that of recasting it in a given mold, of shaping the mentality of the population as a whole in accordance with a predetermined model and instilling the ideas and sentiments they thought desirable into the minds of all.
~ Alexis de Tocqueville
At each instant citizens fall under the control of the public administration; they are brought insensibly and almost without their knowing it to sacrifice new parts of their individual independence to it every day, and the same men who from time to time overturn a throne and ride roughshod over kings bend more and more without resistance to the slightest will of a clerk.
~ Alexis de Tocqueville
By the choice of the master, or by the will of the slave, it will cease; and in either case great calamities may be expected to ensue.
~ Alexis de Tocqueville
In aristocracies the master often exercises, even without being aware of it, an amazing sway over the opinions, the habits, and the manners of those who obey him, and his influence extends even further than his authority.
~ Alexis de Tocqueville
the European is to the other races of mankind, what man is to the lower animals;—he makes them subservient to his use; and when he cannot subdue, he destroys them.
~ Alexis de Tocqueville
Le despotisme, qui, de nature, est craintif, voit dans l'isolement des hommes le gage le plus certain de sa propre durée, et il met d'ordinaire tous ses soins à les isoler. Il n'est pas de vice du cÅ"ur humain qui lui agrée autant que l'égoïsme : un despote pardonne aisément aux gouvernés de ne point l'aimer, pourvu qu'ils ne s'aiment pas entre eux.
~ Alexis de Tocqueville
When I see that the right and the means of absolute command are conferred on any power whatever, be it called a people or a king, an aristocracy or a democracy, a monarchy or a republic, I say there is the germ of tyranny, and I seek to live elsewhere, under other laws.
~ Alexis de Tocqueville
It is at once necessary and desirable that the central power that directs a democratic people be active and powerful. There is no question of rendering it weak or indolent, but only of preventing it from abusing its agility and force.
~ Alexis de Tocqueville
Some who support [more] coercive strategies assume that children will run wild if they are not controlled. However, the children for whom this is true typically turn out to be those accustomed to being controlled— those who are not trusted, given explanations, encouraged to think for themselves, helped to develop and internalize good values, and so on. Control breeds the need for more control, which is used to justify the use of control.
~ Alfie Kohn
In short, with each of the thousand-and-one problems that present themselves in family life, our choice is between controlling and teaching, between creating an atmosphere of distrust and one of trust, between setting an example of power and helping children to learn responsibility, between quick-fix parenting and the kind that's focused on long-term goals.
~ Alfie Kohn
Many of our elected officials have virtually handed the keys to our schools over to corporate interests. Presidential commissions on education are commonly chaired by the executives of large companies.
~ Alfie Kohn
The dominant problem with parenting in our society isn't permissiveness, but the fear of permissiveness. We're so worried about spoiling kids that we often end up over controlling them.
~ Alfie Kohn
Now don't warp your orbit, Mac.
~ Alfred Bester
Every man nurses the secret belief that were he God he could do the job much better.
~ Alfred Bester
She walks. She talks. She adapts. She has been conditioned to respond to the highest bidder.
~ Alfred Bester
We prattle about free will, but we're nothing but response . . . mechanical reaction in prescribed grooves.
~ Alfred Bester
The difference between a Welfare State and a Benevolent Despot is slight.
~ Alfred Bester
It was necessary for Yeovil to re-establish control or effect a compromise.
~ Alfred Bester
To hold power has always meant to manipulate idiots and circumstances; and those circumstances and those idiots, tossed together, bring about those coincidences to which even the greatest men confess they owe most of their fame
~ Alfred de Vigny
One is always a good master when one isn't the master
~ Alfred de Vigny
It seems to me that television is exactly like a gun. Your enjoyment of it is determined by which end of it you're on.
~ Alfred Hitchcock