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Quotes About Control

It's a free country, sir; the man's mine, and I do what I please with him,—that's it!
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe
Greasy or not greasy, they will govern you, when their time comes," said Augustine; "and they will be just such rulers as you make them.
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe
It's a free country, sir; the man's mine, and I do
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe
They that cannot govern themselves cannot govern others (Pg. 238).
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe
The slave is always a tyrant, if he can get a chance to be one.
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe
My father showed the exact sort of talent for a statesman. He could have divided Poland as easily as an orange, or trod on Ireland as quietly and systematically as any living.
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe
All the assertiveness training and communication skills in the world can't prevent a relationship from becoming fertile ground for silence and stonewalling, or for anger and frustration, or for just plain hard times. No book or expert can protect us from the range of painful emotions that make us human. We can influence the other person through our words and silence, but we can never control the outcome. That said, what we can
~ Harriet Lerner
Control is an illusion—a fact you will learn very fast if you become ill, or have things fall apart in some other way. When we understand vulnerability and suffering as an essential part of being human, our individual fate can be easier to manage.
~ Harriet Lerner
manage ourselves when we are in their grip.
~ Harriet Lerner
To guard against the intolerable feeling of shame, we may fold ourselves up and hide in the darkest corner. We may apologize for taking up too much space or for using up too much of the valuable oxygen in the room. Or we may do the opposite and flip shame into contempt, arrogance, a need to control, and displays of one-upmanship, dominance, and superiority. In the latter case the person may be hell-bent on not apologizing to anybody.
~ Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.
Freedom is actually a bigger game than power. Power is about what you can control. Freedom is about what you can unleash.
~ Harriet Rubin
ownership of Mark Mortimer's firm, Barry
~ Harry Bingham
For today, at least, the law of abortion stands undisturbed. For today, the women of this Nation still retain the liberty to control their destinies. But the signs are evident and very ominous, and a chill wind blows.
~ HARRY BLACKMUN
Government is force, pure and simple. There's no way to sugar-coat that. And because government is force, it will attract the worst elements of society - people who want to use government to avoid having to earn their living and to avoid having to persuade others to accept their ideas voluntarily.
~ Harry Browne
The communitarians may say you've been enjoying too much individual freedom, and that you must give up some of that for the benefit of the community. But they really mean that they want more power over your life - to force you to subsidize, obey and conform to their choices.
~ Harry Browne
So while the totalitarian state may include a TV camera in every room, I doubt that the camera will work.
~ Harry Browne
You can't control the natures of other people, but you can control how you'll deal with them. And you can also control the extent and manner in which you'll be involved with them.
~ Harry Browne
If a relationship is structured so that each person has his own area of responsibility over which he has complete control, most of the typical headaches of business can be eliminated.
~ Harry Browne
It's just as unrealistic to merge your property as it is to try to merge your minds. And  property  is  very  important.  The  control  of  your  own  property  is  the  most tangible expression of your freedom.
~ Harry Browne
The government is good at one thing. It knows how to break your legs, and then hand you a crutch and say, 'See if it weren't for the government, you wouldn't be able to walk.
~ Harry Browne
I've concentrated upon the things I control, and used that control to remove the restrictions and complications from my life.
~ Harry Browne
Absolutely every government regulation is enforced by violence. If you've never seen that violence, it's because you've been careful, obedient, or lucky.
~ Harry Browne
people who always thought, "It's different here." They failed to realize that no government obeys laws. It will change, overrule, ignore, or defy them whenever they get in its way. To count on the law to protect you is a grave mistake.
~ Harry Browne
There ought to be a law against the sun rising and setting for you in somebody else.
~ Harry Crews