Quotes About Control

The first step is making sure you, as the Top, do, in fact, know what the hell you're doing.

Now, pull the knife toward you—never push it. You want to hold your blade the way an artist holds and controls a paintbrush. You have to anticipate a sudden flinch, jerk or quiver so that any cut is intentional, never accidental. Your sub is your precious canvas, and you want to be creative while always maintaining full control." Mark

You really are an incorrigible little slut girl, aren't you?

Take out my cock and suck it. You are not to stop until I climax. You are to swallow every drop." Apparently

She thought about orgasming on command. How was that even possible? You came when your body was ready to come, not when someone else told you to.

She didn't get a chance to demonstrate any of her skills—the man was just fucking her mouth, plain and simple.

Had he behaved, not like a Dom, but like a potential lover?

This isn't a game. If you sign on, your body will no longer be your own. Modesty has no place, none whatsoever, in a slave's repertoire. You will do as you're told, when you're told, or be punished. If this isn't something you think you can handle, you'd better face that right now.

You're mine, Jaime. You've always been mine. You were born with my name under your tongue. Say it. Say my name." "Master

You are used to having the focus on you. You've probably heard it many times before—it's all about the submissive. She remains in ultimate control, because she controls the scene. You are obsessed with your own pleasure and pain, and your effect on your Dom. When do you get a whipping, when do you get to come, does your Dom find you sexy, attractive, submissive, obedient?

Remove your shoes and place them beside the mat. Then you will kneel, ass on your heels, knees spread wide, hands resting on your thighs palms up, eyes on the floor. You will wait here until we are ready for you. You will not move out of position until directed to do so. You will not speak unless spoken to directly and a response is required. Is that understood?

Show us your grace, sub girl. Your body exists to please and serve us. Remember that. If you get some pleasure along the way, that's all well and good, but your focus should be on serving. If that doesn't work for you, you might need to rethink what you're doing here.

The second position," Dominique continued, "is called submit. You will kneel forward, face down, arms stretched out on the ground in front of you, ass high in the air, knees spread wide.

it, arms straight, back arched, hips forward. Being forced to hold that position for more than a minute or two was an excellent punishment for naughty sub girls.

to strip and to stand before them in a wait up position, legs slightly apart, wrists crossed above the head.

subs sometimes require discipline, especially at first. Infractions like missing your monthly attendance quota or topping from the bottom will result in some form of punishment. Depending on the infraction, you might expect something as mild as a time-out in a slave cage, or as extreme as a serious whipping—not the good kind

Living things are restrained by chains. The laws of nature, the flow of time, the vessel known as your "body", and the existence called your mind. The one chain that people can wield, words.

Do you believe destiny can be changed?" "To get what I want…I'll change the very position of the stars, if that's what it takes.

Bow down, I am the emperor of dreams.

when people encounter a significant threat, a response called "threat rigidity" sets in. The instinct of threat rigidity is to cease being flexible and to become "command and control" oriented—to focus everything on countering the threat in order to survive.

What are the assumptions that have to prove true in order for me to be able to succeed in this assignment?" List them. Are they within your control? Equally important, ask yourself what assumptions have to prove true for you to be happy in the choice you are contemplating. Are you basing your position on extrinsic or intrinsic motivators? Why do you think this is going to be something you enjoy doing? What evidence do you have?

managers may think they control the flow of resources in their firms, in the end it is really customers and investors who dictate how money will be spent because companies with investment patterns that don't satisfy their customers and investors don't survive.

He is hated, because he teaches hate. We obey him because we must. He holds our minds in the hollow of his hand.

So I proposed to give the people scientific government…a business administration. An administration that would have run the government exactly as a successful businessman runs his business. The people would have resented it if I had told them they didn't know how to run their affairs. There was only one way to do it…gain control and force it down their throats.