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Quotes About Control

Telling a women beater who is clearly a control freak, binge drink and drug taker who by the way probably drives his car whilst intoxicated there's plenty more fish in the sea I would touch this prick with a blunt barge pole if I was shark shit!!!! Yes this is a sarcastic comment as its definately not a great comment by this so called Judge.
~ Judge Martin Rudland
Let] go of your attachments: your attachment to being right, to having total control, or to living forever. This process of letting go is integral to the process of becoming whole.
~ Judith Hanson Lasater
If I wanted to influence their behavior, it had to be through my own. The only real control I had was the choice of my own words and actions, including being clear about my expectations and needs.
~ Judith Hanson Lasater
Trauma robs the victim of a sense of power and control; the guiding principle of recovery is to restore power and control. The first task of recovery is to establish the survivor's safety. This task takes precedence over all others, for no therapeutic workman possibly succeed if safety has not been adequately secured…
~ Judith Herman
A man in cahoots with a woman's sexual instinct was the devil himself, for he had the united power over her—himself and her own longing—greater than a mere man
~ Judith Ivory
Any woman who can make you happy has all the information she needs to make you miserable if she wants to.
~ Judith Ivory
Survivors feel unsafe in their bodies. Their emotions and their thinking feel out of control. They also feel unsafe in relation to other people.
~ Judith Lewis Herman
It is regarded as axiomatic that parents have more power then children. This is an inescapable biological fact; young children are completely dependent on their parents or other caring adults for survival.
~ Judith Lewis Herman
Though both partners may wish for reconciliation, their unspoken goals are often sharply in conflict. The abuser usually wishes to reestablish his pattern of coercive control, while the victim wishes to resist it.
~ Judith Lewis Herman
The desire for total control over another person is the common denominator of all forms of tyranny.
~ Judith Lewis Herman
Therapy requires a collaborative working relationship in which both partners act on the basis of their implicit confidence in the value and efficacy of persuasion rather than coercion, ideas rather than force, mutuality rather than authoritarian control.
~ Judith Lewis Herman
In situations of captivity the perpetrator becomes the most powerful person in the life of the victim, and the psychology of the victim is shaped by the actions and beliefs of the perpetrator.
~ Judith Lewis Herman
Miss Manners' meager arsenal consists only of the withering look, the insistent and repeated request, the cold voice, the report up the chain of command and the tilted nose. They generally work.
~ Judith Martin
And you see control of your life disappearing as this catches on and people start booking your future without your consent. No, no, calm down. The "hold the date" card is not a summons, only a warning.
~ Judith Martin
remember the Lord is in charge. You should cast your cares upon His shoulders." I
~ Judith McCoy Miller
Instead of always holdin' on and thinkin' you know best, you gotta let Him take control. God knows what's good for you, Jarena, but you keep tryin' to make your own plans without Him.
~ Judith McCoy Miller
Why is it when you yield, I feel like the one who has been conquered?" -Royce Westmoreland
~ Judith McNaught
Behold your new mistress, my wife," he pronounced, "and know that when she bids you, I have bidden you. What service you render her, you are rendering me. What loyalty you give or withhold from her, you give or withhold from me!" -Royce Westmoreland
~ Judith McNaught
How you react emotionally is a choice in any situation.
~ Judith Orloff
Always, emotional freedom involves choosing where you put your attention.
~ Judith Orloff
Zaman?m?z?n duyusal a??r? yük alt?nda ezilen savunmac? ve odaklanmam?? bak???, belki gözün kontrol ve iktidara yönelik içsel arzusundan özgürle?mi? yeni görme ve dü?ünme alanlar? açabilir. Odak kayb? gözü tarihsel ataerkil tahakkümden kurtarabilir.
~ Juhani Pallasmaa
Anybody can manage order, a true master manages chaos.
~ Jukka Mäki-Turja
design is so important because chaos is so hard
~ Jules Feiffer
We want playmates we can own
~ Jules Feiffer